E48: TOLWM + Carolini Arco x In Pursuit of Personal Sovereignty

Join me for an insightful discussion with the wonderful Carolini Arco about personal growth, resilience in times of change, the significance of evolving our mindsets—particularly regarding money—and the transformative power of gratitude. This inspiring spiritual mentor shares, "If we knew how immensely valuable we are, we wouldn’t waste a minute in doubt or regret.” More topics include:

• Embracing the journey of change
• Supporting the vision of Heaven on Earth
• Calling bullshit on the old business paradigm
• Understanding your relationship with money
• Pursuing personal sovereignty
• Sparking waves of change and gratitude

Carolini is based in Brazil, and you can explore her ideas, offerings, and community online at:

https://www.arcoteachings.com/
https://www.facebook.com/caroline.arco/
https://www.instagram.com/arcoteachings

Transcript

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Natalie P.: Hello, beautiful humans! You are here to think out loud with me. I am Natalie Peterson, casting in from my little neck of the woods in northern Colorado, to you in yours, wherever and whenever that might be.

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Natalie P.: This little digital adventure is my way of turning years of internal chatter and wondering.

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Natalie P.: silent suffering and physical and mental close calls

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Natalie P.: into enlightening and empowering conversations with others.

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Natalie P.: The sun is rising on a beautiful day.

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Natalie P.: It's fall, and it's the kind of fall day that I

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Natalie P.: 100%. I adore these types of days. I woke to the air being chilly, and after wrapping myself in my robe, I actually turned the fireplace on for the 1st time of the season. And yes, it is going to be 90 degrees today on the flip side. But last night it flirted with the thirties.

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Natalie P.: and that is a cry for Cozy in my book. So I went ahead and flipped that switch

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Natalie P.: and sat by the fire this morning, and did my did my morning routine, and and leaned into the day in front of me.

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Natalie P.: speaking of changing seasons, I'm eyeball deep in one of my own. And

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Natalie P.: 5 0 of my life and my 50th trip around the sun. I'm

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Natalie P.: I'm in this mode of of wonder around change. And I receive a daily email from

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Natalie P.: one of my teachers. And actually, this morning it was interesting. It's always like she's synced up with my own. And she offered a reflection of of the concept of change.

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Natalie P.: I want to read it to you

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Natalie P.: change.

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Natalie P.: It's as common as our breath.

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Natalie P.: We experience it daily in big and small ways. Traffic lights, change, addresses, change. People change problems change.

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Natalie P.: You'd think that we'd be accepting of change with all of our life experience in that area. But the truth is, most of us resist change because change around us activates change within us.

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Natalie P.: Change requires us to make choices.

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Natalie P.: and the ability to choose is a great gift.

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Natalie P.: And then she asks, how would your life be different. If you recognize change as an opportunity to choose what you will do next.

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Natalie P.: Allow change to be empowering.

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Natalie P.: I can honestly say that change doesn't scare me anymore. In fact, I mean, I get a little jumpy, and I and I and I experience nerves. But it's more nerves of anticipation. It's really not fear that I feel

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Natalie P.: and and it's curious to me, entering the season of of change in my own life.

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Natalie P.: And and the the feelings of of what's next? The excitement around? What's next?

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Natalie P.: I could be whoever I want to be

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Natalie P.: in this next chapter.

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Natalie P.: It's fascinating to me. I want to talk about this concept and talk about what it means to change

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Natalie P.: our inner worlds and to branch out into massive worlds new dimensions with my guest today she's joining me from. I didn't ask her to

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Natalie P.: to pronounce this one for me. Florianapolis.

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Natalie P.: Santa Caterina Brazil.

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Natalie P.: Carolina Arco

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Natalie P.: is a full-time healer.

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Natalie P.: She's a manifester, she's a teacher, she's a mentor.

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Natalie P.: and I encountered her in a networking space that she and I share called her nation. I've I've mentioned her nation in several casts.

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Natalie P.: I saw her on my screen, and wondered at her energy

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Natalie P.: and her softness, and I was drawn to connect with her and learn more about her. Her own magic comes to life in

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Natalie P.: one on one consultations with with clients. I don't want to call them consultations, because, as I've gotten to know her

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Natalie P.: through her different online profiles. I think it's it's much more than a consultation. It it seems to be a journey, a Co. Journey, a co-author journey.

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Natalie P.: She conducts ceremonies, classes, and other personal development programs

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Natalie P.: designed to raise the frequency

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Natalie P.: and empower individuals to. And these are her words facilitate radical and lasting transformation.

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Natalie P.: Carolini, I am incredibly grateful to have you piping in from Brazil on this beautiful morning. It's a couple hours

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Natalie P.: ahead where you are welcome to think out loud with me. I'm incredibly excited to do that with you and say, Hi! To folks.

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Carolini Arco: Oh, my gosh, thank you so much for welcoming Natalie, and thank you for bringing me into the beautiful, crisp fall morning. I was right there with you. I basically like saw the leaves falling into the ground.

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Carolini Arco: So thank you for the nice warm hug to my heart.

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Natalie P.: Yes, absolutely. That is, it's a heart hug right

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Natalie P.: your season over there before we hit record. You are in the spring season in Brazil, and

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Natalie P.: and just came off a yummy storm and and some some powerful energy moving around you. And

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Natalie P.: I was hoping to use that kind of as a launch pad for thinking about. This idea of change with me and

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Natalie P.: What is it about our world we talked. There's there's an intensity going on in our world.

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Natalie P.: the change and the intensity that's going on in our world right now from from your perspective.

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Carolini Arco: so as you so briefly introduced me, I'm a spiritual teacher. Right which means that I work with beings that are beyond this veil. And this has been an experience that I've had since very early in life. As as early as 7 years old I started receiving messages from

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Carolini Arco: different kinds of consciousness that were more expanded than our own.

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Carolini Arco: And I remember when I was around, I would say 18 to 19 years old.

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Carolini Arco: I received this very clear message that we were in a time of immense transformation in the planet.

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Carolini Arco: and that this transformation would come with destruction. It would come with that.

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Carolini Arco: the intensity of life, the rich facets that life brought, and at the time. Of course, you know, there was no Internet, there was no Instagram, so it was very much like a personal experience. Now we have so many people talking about it, which is lovely.

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Carolini Arco: but that really guided my life, and the way that I have

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Carolini Arco: and related to intensity in different moments of change through my life.

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Carolini Arco: And I think what we're experiencing right now is we're understanding that

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Carolini Arco: life is very multidimensional. We can't just operate from the mind alone anymore. It's not going to work.

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Carolini Arco: but also operating from the body alone anymore, is not going to work, but also operating from heart and spirit alone is not going to work.

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Carolini Arco: There's an integration that is happening, and that integration is requiring us to fill it all.

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Carolini Arco: And I feel like a big challenge for humans is to allow ourselves to feel

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Carolini Arco: it's almost like we're comfortable

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Carolini Arco: with certain levels of feeling. I'm comfortable feeling happy until this point

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Carolini Arco: after that is wrong. I'm comfortable, feeling sad or expressing sadness until that point

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Carolini Arco: after that is wrong, and we're pushing beyond our boundaries of that.

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Carolini Arco: open enough that life can run through us with its intense emotions, with its

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Carolini Arco: without the resistance that he has been encountering so often. So I think what we're seeing in the collective space and individually, for many of us is.

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Carolini Arco: we're we're finding that edge where

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Carolini Arco: I am not open to go there anymore. That resistance point. We're finding a resistance point for ourselves.

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Carolini Arco: and that is coming in this form of depression that is coming in the form of anxiety that's coming in the form of

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Carolini Arco: immense, like neurotic fear.

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Carolini Arco: And we are being asked to go further.

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Carolini Arco: Are you going to push through that? Are you actually gonna learn how to find safety

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Natalie P.: it's going to take there. There are those that have been on a journey.

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Natalie P.: multiple journeys, multiple lives of of transformation that are steps in front of us that are teaching and mentoring and pulling this concept of

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Natalie P.: and and and and pushing, not pushing, because that feels forceful, but leaning into the discomfort of change and intensity to find out

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Natalie P.: a story that they could question, and then go down another layer to find out if there's a connection to the person sitting beside them. That's similar going down. Another connection, another layer to find out

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Natalie P.: that Carolina, in Brazil and Natalie in Colorado are, in fact, one of the same energy

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Natalie P.: at our very basis.

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Natalie P.: like I think I just blew my own mind.

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Carolini Arco: I saw that.

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Natalie P.: Did you see it?

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Natalie P.: Maybe I had

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Natalie P.: either one too many cups of coffee this morning or or not enough. But I'm

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Natalie P.: I'm just thinking, I guess, where it came from and listening to you is, I'm thinking of you as a small child and receiving this input and this, this intelligence coming to you. And then, were you, were you driven to share? Were you? Because.

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Natalie P.: we've had so much influence by the Internet and so much influence by this online connection that we almost can't remember what it was like not to be disconnected. Right? And so I'm just. I'm imagining you with this intelligence and knowing. And then, as a young adult like, there is some big shit coming down.

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Natalie P.: Yeah, I'm in a place of

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Carolini Arco: It has been an intense experience. My whole life journey has been an experience of intensity. Because, yeah, I think when you are as early as 7, and you have these messages around purpose and mission and big things in the world.

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Carolini Arco: You can't comprehend what it means, and it feels like pressure. There's an there's an element of pressure that does not feel good is

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Carolini Arco: I have definitely, it has definitely been an intense experience for me, and there has definitely been a lot of resistance in my path.

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Carolini Arco: and I had to go through the journey of

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Carolini Arco: it's not that it became easier per se. It's still intense, but you know my life really helped, because I started manifesting all the resources that I need in order to create that mission, to see that coming forth, and so

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Carolini Arco: that have obviously made things easier on, like a very basic environmental level, to be able to fulfill this mission, to go. Go ahead with this mission. But it is a big task that we have ahead of us, I think, for all of us, because we are in this moment of

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Carolini Arco: massive change. We are birthing the new earth. As you said, I think that's such a beautiful example. We were the last generations that were born before the Internet. We've experienced a shift

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Carolini Arco: very intuitive level. We understood that we're not alone anymore. We understood the concept of interconnectedness, this whole like mind blowing moment that you had

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Carolini Arco: very similar to that right, the Internet gave us an opportunity to actually understand. Wow!

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Carolini Arco: it. It created a rupture in the human consciousness that made us evolve

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Carolini Arco: beyond what we have been before. Right like we're we're in a process of evolution like biological evolution, our brains are evolving to having to deal with this immense amount of information per minute.

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Carolini Arco: And so I think we are all in this process of having to honor the responsibility

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Carolini Arco: with these new tools, with this new awareness, that yes, things are intense. Yes, change is coming, and should be asking ourselves, Well, who do I want to be?

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Carolini Arco: I made change. Do I want to be the one that is scared in the corner, and is complaining, or like banging against the wall, because I hate this so much, and I wish it wasn't happening. It's their fault and their fault and their fault right like.

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Carolini Arco: do I want to be that? Or do I want to be the one that's like, okay. This responsibility was given to me in this lifetime, so I will take it.

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Carolini Arco: and I will go into the fields like chest open. This is what I stand for. This is what I'm creating from here. This is what I'm alchemizing. All this fear of change.

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Carolini Arco: which I think is the biggest opportunity, and it's not that one is easier and the other is harder. I think both of these options

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Carolini Arco: will perhaps be equally as hard.

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Carolini Arco: But when we are living in purpose there is an an inner knowing

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Carolini Arco: that we're we're safe through it all.

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Natalie P.: We might.

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Carolini Arco: Afraid in some level or another. But there's an inner knowing that we're safe. I think that's why you were talking about. If

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Carolini Arco: I mean this big process of change turning 50, and I can feel the excitement for the change. But there's also a certainty that

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Carolini Arco: I'm safe through it all.

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Carolini Arco: An exciting time.

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Carolini Arco: though, is intense, is an exciting time.

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Carolini Arco: Yeah, what do you think.

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Natalie P.: I think that there's like yes, and like, when you get to a place where you have

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Natalie P.: if I think about a whole nother

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Natalie P.: like. Now the the perspective. If we come into this life with with perspective, and we choose, you know,

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Natalie P.: deciding. No, I don't want to be that, and going in a whole different direction, pissing everybody off blowing. Shit up because you

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Natalie P.: And I. And I'm saying all this feeling like, there's a parallel with.

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Natalie P.: to think about, because I do want to get to this about your own. You've talked a couple times about being on a on on a mission.

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Natalie P.: You're on a a mission to if I'm right, I'm recalling right? So opening conversations

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Natalie P.: that there's always been a way that this not always. But there's been a way this has worked and that that there's there's a there's a disconnect between

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Natalie P.: the economy of you know. Trading. Here's my dollars for my service rendered that there's a disconnect there. That you're trying to

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Carolini Arco: Beautiful. Yeah. So I would say that my grander mission is really to support the advancement of humanity as a whole, and

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Carolini Arco: and that includes accessing our inner resources and certain abilities that have been hidden or not explored, such as the ability of manifestation channeling. You know many, many.

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Carolini Arco: many beautiful gifts in that sense, and within that bigger mission, I think the coaching industry sort of became one segment of that, because I have been an active part of the coaching industry for the last almost 8 years now.

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Carolini Arco: I make my income and my resources by doing something that is completely connected to my heart, that I deeply adore.

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Carolini Arco: But what I think the biggest message, and why I think this mission is so important to me is because I see that the mentors that

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Carolini Arco: is that when we try to put like mentorship coaching leadership into a business model, it feels like it misses something.

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Carolini Arco: It's almost. It's almost like we put a middle man. So I hope I'm explaining myself writing to this. So we before there's an energy of you know I'm the mentor. I'm the guide. I'm the teacher, and you are the main team, the students. And we have this like natural flow, this natural exchange, between ourselves, it's natural that I'm going to give, and I'm going to receive. And this just happens right then it seems like the moment that we put a business in the middle of this

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Carolini Arco: it became a lot more complicated than it needed to be, because it suddenly wasn't about like me. And you just receiving it was me, the business. And you. And now you have to interact with the business and not with me. And so the business has, you know, all these business boundaries and what's right and what's wrong and

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Carolini Arco: but we missed the S. We missed the essence of it when we like. Went into the business world. When we tried to put this into the business world. So a part of my mission and my conversation is, how do we actually innovate from here? How can we stand strongly in. I am the kind of person who is creating sacred resources

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Carolini Arco: That's not necessarily what the business paradigm has been so far, you know, creating a new paradigm.

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Carolini Arco: Yeah, because I know that what gets us, you know, stuck is the money piece, like, yeah, I think any conversations, Natalie. I don't know how deep you want to go into his. Of course I can go so deeper into this. But

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Carolini Arco: I've been in conversations with the most incredible leaders, you know, like very aware people.

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Carolini Arco: like. Come on, let's let's address the elephant in the room. Then, if the elephant in the room is the money dynamics that have been playing out that we're not happy with. Let's talk about it. Let's see it. Let's brainstorm.

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Carolini Arco: That is not necessarily through the old business parody.

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Carolini Arco: I'm experiencing right now for an example. This year is a year. Last year I sold a bunch the last couple of years, and it felt really easy felt really natural. I really believed in the offers, you know, like I wanted those people to be in this year. I didn't feel like selling much at all. I just didn't.

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Carolini Arco: the service speaks for itself when you are serving, the resource has no way but to find you. You know that has been my true lived experience.

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Carolini Arco: But we're so disconnected from the trusting in that which is what is required. If we're going to create a new paradigm for leadership is, we need to trust that a new way it works

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Carolini Arco: again the fear of change. We're afraid. What if I let go? What if I stop selling? What if I stop like with that pushy language? What if I stop putting myself as the authority? Will that work? Because I know that in the past this is what has worked

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Carolini Arco: for anything like for the coaching industry or for anybody. The only way that we will know that the new way will work is if we go for it, and if we try.

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Carolini Arco: like out. I've manifested $20,000 out of nowhere, $50,000 out of nowhere, multiple times, not through my business. And I have stories about it that I can share. You know you don't need the freaking business in order to create the money. Stop! Let's stop that mentality. Money is one thing. Business is another thing.

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Carolini Arco: and if we believe that you know I get to serve through my resources, I will be support. I get to serve through my heart, I will be supported in my life. I will receive the resources, and the only thing that I need to do is to serve through my heart, and know and know, and know, and know, and trust and trust and trust. Then that's what we need to

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Carolini Arco: you know, instead of falling back off. Oh, but I'm going to try that. I'm going to try doing that offer that I don't really want, and that 2 for one buy like, buy 2, but I don't know. Buy one, get 2, just to see. Just to see. I'm just gonna like, tap my fingers there is like, No, I'm in integrity. This is who I am now. That's what I'm stepping into now. This is how I'm walking now.

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Carolini Arco: how can I say, I trust in your transformation if I don't trust in my transformation, in the transformation of the coaching industry, the transformation.

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Carolini Arco: You know what I mean like I I trust in change.

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Carolini Arco: Bingo. If you don't change your relationship to it, you're always going to stay in the feeling like a slave to it. It is like, and you know, I say that with all the love in my heart, but it is every individual's personal responsibility to shift your relationship with money. It is not about getting my point of view. It is not about trusting that the way that I see money is the way that you should see money, or that's the way that is right for you that I don't think that's it at all.

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Carolini Arco: But it is a personal journey that each individual has to be willing to go through. What is my relationship with money? How do I want my relationship with money to feel like

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Carolini Arco: I just. And I'm not trying to sell or anything. But I just did like an 11 day journey for my

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Carolini Arco: coming into a place of sovereignty with money for yourself. I have, Natalie. I left home when I was 18 years old I had $60 in my pocket and started life new again estranged from my parents. That was the beginning of my adult life. Okay, let's just start with that. I immigrated to Canada when I was 23 years old by myself. I had $2,000 that I managed to save somehow that was supposed to last me for 6 months, $2,000 to last me. For 6 months

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Natalie P.: And unwind you. You nailed it. It's it is conditioning, and and it has been in place and in motion and impacting us for generations and in order for us to granted time. You know, information, age, the Internet, the connectivity is, there's a faster and and much more intense pace to things. But we have undoing, unraveling to do.

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Natalie P.: again, not as a place of. There's not an authority to it, or a hierarchy to it. Right? That's where I think the business starts to filter in. The money part starts to filter in. Well, you need to listen to me because I've made money on this. People. Pay me for this. So that's my

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Carolini Arco: that that is my job, even if your sovereignty means that it's completely different than mine, and that you completely disagree with everything that I say. I can absolutely respect you on that like absolutely, you know.

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Natalie P.: There as I was stalking you online,

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Natalie P.: And it. It helps me understand

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Carolini Arco: I'm Brazilian. I was born. I was born in Brazil. Speak Portuguese originally, so my name would be written the same as Caroline in English, but Caroline was the version of me who was very depressed, and who had a really hard time finding herself

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Carolini Arco: Yeah. So I do have a membership community that is quite affordable and is a space for lightworkers to come together and to do

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Carolini Arco: Yeah, absolutely is definitely a place for ownership for us to own that. That's what we do. You know, that's who we are. And it doesn't mean that you need to be a healer. It doesn't mean that you need to work with this. Specifically, it just means that you have a true desire to

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Carolini Arco: contribute to the planet through your gifts, through your sacred purpose. Even if you don't know what that is yet like you, just you're there, right. You want to be part of this movement of growth, and it's very much about owning it. The value of it. How much value we have when we come into that place.

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Carolini Arco: Ownership, because that sentence that you were just mentioning before of. If we only knew how valuable we were, we wouldn't waste a moment in doubt that really came from me. If I may share.

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Carolini Arco: That really came from me, walking through my life, my daily life outside of the Internet, and

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Carolini Arco: when I go to the supermarket I live in this small fishing village, and so the supermarket has the name of, you know, a family that has lived here forever. And I was like, this is so important to me that I'm able to support this family instead of the big corporations, or

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Carolini Arco: I have a story on my Instagram about my homekeeper, which I found by the beach selling candies, and was able to together, obviously really elevate her life. And so that came from me like walking my life and noticing. Wow! Like this action has so much value. This action has so much value might be something that's so trivial.

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Carolini Arco: And that's where that sentence really

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Carolini Arco: We are so much powerful, you know we have so much in our hands to create positive change.

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Natalie P.: your the way that your mind works is, it's beautiful. I do. I appreciate this time spent with you.

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Carolini Arco: Me, too, Natalie. Thank you so much. Thank you for this beautiful session together. I really appreciate it too.

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Natalie P.: Yeah.

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Natalie P.: And I want to thank everyone here that's listening in in real time for themselves, whatever that looks like

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Natalie P.: for thinking out loud with me, and today's guest, Carolina and Caroline honor both. Arco given. How many choices you have to spend your time? I'm honored that you've been sharing it here with the 2 of us, and until we visit again, please go live with love

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Natalie P.: and intention. And please, please, please don't let anybody fuck with your flow

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Natalie P.: big hugs.

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Natalie P.: big love

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Natalie P.: bye, friends.